and the mind, let me suggest a bid on Stephen Elliot’s hair-raising fundraiser. Stephen‘s long been a writer whose work I admire largely because, despite wildly different starting points, both of us have arrived at similar places in our sexuality. (Hurray, poly BDSM!) Yes, we’re both writers as well but, at best, we parallel each other there. I settled into too predictable a personal psychology early enough in my young adulthood to write about the drama of relationships the way Stephen has and I’m a bit too entrenched in traditional sex-positive erotica. But that doesn’t prevent me from greatly admiring his work. In fact, I admire it because I can’t easily go there myself.
Stephen’s cause is a good one and those of lesser means (myself included) can find more affordable options by clicking on Auction Cause’s ebay store.

